I want to explain whether anyone can really have an impact on our lives, good or bad?
Can someone affect us by thinking or speaking? or attract good and bad things to us?
The answer this question only depends on us. No one can influence our lives, whether it be positive or negative, unless we approve our own way of thinking or words. That is, it all comes back to us if we listen and pay attention to the words of others and confirm it in our minds and create belief in it. At that time, it is as if we sent the request to God that we want that subject or event and in fact we attract it.
So , in fact, no one can influence someone’s life, it all comes back to how we deal with that issue.
For example, in a positive way, if someone tells you how good your driving is, if you confidently say yes, thank you , i have been spending a lot of time on my driving, or how many years have I been driving. At that time, you have confirmed that person’s words in a good way and you will attract the fact that you are a good driver, which will make even if you sometimes make small mistakes, it will be fixed or better than before.
But if you say no, my driving is not good at all, this will make this sentence register in your subconscious mind and absorb it, and from now on, your driving skills will decrease and your driving mistakes will increase.
Or in the form of a negative question if someone tells you how much you should drive and you are not a good driver at all.
The result will come back to your words, if in the answer or in your mind you say with confidence, who said that my driving is very good, I have not had even the smallest accident or even a scratch on my car. This will make you eliminate the effect of the negative words of the audience and even turn it into a positive effect.
But if you confirm that person’s negative words, for example by saying, “Yes, I know” or something, it will cause it to be registered in your police station, and from now on, bad driving incidents that cause you to make mistakes will attract more. you do
(The topic of self-confidence and people’s words)
So it all comes back to your reaction, no matter how seriously and confidently you give a suitable and good answer to the negative words of others, it will make you nullify the effect of their words.
You must believe that you are in control of your life and no one’s good or bad words can affect your life.
If you think that people’s words have an effect, it means that you forgot God and God’s power, that instead of faith and trust, you let doubt into your heart. Believe that there is a god, if you believe in him, he will protect you from all evil. This is true faith, my friends. There is no doubt about it.